Power Of SELF-CONCEPT in TRANSFORMING Your APPEARANCE & SELF-CONFIDENCE
Hello. And welcome to another episode of the Limitless Hair Expert, where we combine expert advice and self-improvement together. And today's subject is how your self-concept will empower your appearance. Now think about that what I'm going to do is reverse this it's usually do something to your appearance and your self-confidence will build that is true but sometimes you got to think this in reverse and reverses build your self-concept and then you'll then also build your self-image, okay.
Your appearance because your appearance is very well connected to your self-concept now I want to break down your self-concept is this is very, very important, let's look at it simply self-concept it's the concept of yourself there's three parts to your self-concept your one is your ideal self what you ideally think of yourself what you ideally think you could become now what that means it means in every subject what you ideally think you could become in reading in your profession in a certain sport in a certain way you look, okay.
So your ideal self is what you ultimately feel you can become and that should be built up because technically there's no limit to it that's why these videos theories or these video episodes or called limitless hair expert so remember when you're building your ideal self-up there's no limit you have to think that way so that's one of the self-concept next part of a self-concept is your self-image look in the mirror your image of yourself that's the immediate thought of what you think of yourself your self-image that also should be upgraded.
You should think of yourself as being powerful as being achievable of looking good of feeling good okay so it's very, very important to think that way one way of doing that is always upgrade your image and we're talking about hair here so if you don't like your hair do something about it if it's not full enough and hair if it's full enough style it in a certain way do your hair in a way that you feel good because your hair part of your image is totally connected to your self-concept now the third part of your self-concept is your self-esteem your self-esteem is the core of you it's how you feel, alright.
So your self-esteem is built up from the other two meaning yourself ideal self and your self-image builds into the self-esteem your self-esteem to feel good about yourself all the time. So how do you feel good about yourself alright, two ways you want to approach it in two different directions you want to reverse it and just build up yourself by thinking good things to yourself pitching yourself in good ways and by doing that should cause you to take care of yourself your image, alright.
Now you can reverse that if you want and take care of your appearance and you should so do them in combination talk to yourself think of good things think that you look and feel good all the time think of good things I have a good technique for you whenever you think of something not good just train yourself just say stop, alright. If you say it real sharp like that stop you'll train yourself to stop thinking about negative things and you'll think about good things, alright.
And then start thinking about always how to improve your appearance because the more you improve your appearance the better you feel about yourself, alright. And if that's very important alright so please keep that in mind now our quote for today is by Brian Tracy and he says it's more important to be effective than it is to be right I'm going to take a little story I heard from Brian Tracy and this was not actually a quote it was a statement that he made those to put into a quote but I want to give him credit for it because I heard it from him, okay. He told this story that when he was very young was at a party and what he did is he's seen a group of people in one section of the party and he walked over to them because we found out they were talking about politics and he knew a lot about politics so he walked over there to tell them what this board about politics, okay.
And when he did he found that everybody in that crowd just evaporated they all split up they spread all around and he realized it didn't matter how much he knew he didn't matter that he knew politics down cold what matter that he wasn't being effective. So that was the lesson that he learned and that I got and that is always remember it's more important to be effective than it is to be right sometimes you can be right and effective but sometimes you got a hold back and not be too pushy.
So please keep that in mind, okay. And our next video, stay tuned for our next video and that will be about “Why is balance the key to naturalness and flexibility”. I'll see you soon,
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